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Women only, what percentage of brides to be cheat at their bachelorette parties?

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Look, I would like a serious answer, marriage is a serious thing. I don’t want to marry someone who is all about cheating and being selfish. That’s my worst fear, b/c I am a really faithful guy. This question has been asked before here and everyone gives the same vague answer. I would very much appreciate it if someone could tell me what percentage of brides to be cheat w/ other men, even the stripper, at bachelorette parties? I have been faithful all the years of my relationship w/ my soon to be bride, and I don’t intend on cheating on my bachelor party or ever. This is an anonymous forum, so please no jokes, no vague answers, be honest. And one more thing please elaborate on how far women go w/ other men at bachelorette parties, and if so what percentage of women do these things? Again this is a serious question, I don’t want to marry a selfish cheater, please give me an honest answer.

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  1. politically correct on Sep 08, 2010

    Seriously – no matter how we answer, it’s not going to make you feel better. Bottom line – do you trust your fiance? Because it sounds like you don’t. I have never seen a bride cheat on her fiance during the bachelorette party, but I’ve never heard of any statistics either. But whether or not someone cheats depends on their personality and moral fiber. Being at a bachelorette party doesn’t suddenly change them into a different person who will act out of character.

    What makes you think your fiance is going to cheat on you during her bachelorette party?

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  2. No. on Sep 08, 2010

    No matter the percentage (how do you accurately collect that data anyway?) you will never know. A large part of marriage is trust.

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  3. LaVada A on Sep 08, 2010

    I personally feel if you can’t hold your liquor and you are not a faithful person you should stay in the house and don’t leave. That is my honest opinion. It is not an annual percentage I don’t think. But it is not that common I don’t think. For parties, I think woman make noises and they may grab and touch the man chest but I don’t think having sex will take place for most women it may be a few that may try. If it is a stripper he is going to tease you just like a female stripper do with men. He will give lap dances and etc.. It just depends on that individual and what there boundaries. You should know your mate and set rules if need be. But we are all adults so that shouldn’t be a problem. Good luck and try not worry about if it is really bothering you talk to your mate.

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  4. melouofs on Sep 08, 2010

    I have never heard of any woman doing this ever. I am 40 years old and have attended MANY b-ette parties. NEVER seen anything remotely close to cheating in any way.

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  5. I love my love on Sep 08, 2010

    my bachelorette party was outdoors at a beautiful vineyard, so it would have been pretty hard for me to grab a random guy and sex him among the gardens! nor would I want to because my fiance’s the best. sorry ladies.

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  7. Sarah on Sep 08, 2010

    I have been to quite a few bachelorette parties and I have never seen a girl cheat. I see her friends and her having fun while drinking and maybe goofing off more then usual, but not cheat. I would say more guys cheat. Either way, if you are getting married and worry about it then maybe you don’t have enough trust in that person. Or, if they do cheat you should realize you are worth waaaaay more. Why not do a joint bachelor/bachelorette party? They are becoming VERY popular. It’s soooo much less stressful. Make sure you do the parties far enough in advance. You don’t want a party on Friday night then Saturday (right before your wedding) worry if she cheated or not. Make sure you have plenty of time to talk about it. A lot of parties are at least a month before the wedding just in case. Hope this helps!

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  8. Slightly Ravenous on Sep 08, 2010

    I doubt there are reliable stats on this sort of thing.

    Personally, I did not cheat nor do I know anyone who did cheat at the bachelorette party.

    You may want to rethink marrying someone if you don’t trust them.

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  9. ◦Lady2◦ on Sep 08, 2010

    I honestly don’t know. Of all the people I know who have gotten married, I only know of one person who did cheat before and after. I’ve also been to numerous bachelorette parties, and none have had men there. I’m getting married, and if I have a bachelorette party, I’m not going to have strippers. It would make me very uncomfortable. If your soon to be bride does cheat (sleeps or does sexual things with), then I would think you guys shouldn’t get married.

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  10. lady on Sep 08, 2010

    I am OLD (over 50) and had been to many, many, bachelorette parties….and I have NEVER seen a bride cheat with some guy. I think you have have some severe trust issues going on and you need to work on them BEFORE you marry anyone. If you truly believe that your lady is a "selfish cheater", you need to find another lady and move on…JMHO

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  11. :3 on Sep 08, 2010

    There’s no way of knowing what percentage of women cheat at their bachelorette parties. I’m sure there are some who do do it as there are men who cheat at bachelor parties.

    I for one don’t think that strippers is a great idea for bachelor/ette parties. If you are commited to your wo/man and love him/her then you won’t want to see some whore get naked and ‘celebrate’ your marriage or the last day of ‘freedom’ that way. I will not have a male stripper at my party and I do not wish for my guy to have strippers at his either….If I find out that he did and lied to me, I will be cancelling the wedding no matter how expensive it was.

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  12. Tbby on Sep 08, 2010

    As a Reference Librarian, I can assure you that there is no scientific or reliable data on this subject and therefore your question is one of the unanswerable type.

    That being said, there is data that suggests that women cheat on men as much as men cheat on women. You could take that statement to mean several things. It could just mean that some people are prone to cheating, regardless of sex, and that others are not. I prefer this explanation as it seems the most likely.

    What does that mean for you? It means that love and life is a crap shoot. There is no way to get a guarantee that your future wife will never cheat on you. Just as your future wife cannot be guaranteed that you will never cheat on her. Marriage is about trusting your partner to be honest with you and to follow the rules of your relationship. If you trust that your future wife will not cheat on you, that is all you can do. Just as she has to trust you will not cheat on her. If you think that your future wife is selfish or that it is highly likely she will cheat on you, then perhaps you should rethink this marriage.

    I do, however, find it troubling that you want statistics to back up either your suspicion or paranoia. If I told you that 99% of brides get it on with the stripper at their bachelorette party, are you going to call off your wedding or trust that she would be that 1 in 100 who doesn’t? What if the percentage was 1 in 100,000 cheat? What would you do then? I think you need to have a very long conversation with your future wife about your fears or suspicions before you make this relationship legal.

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  13. Rick Lebidoff on Sep 08, 2010

    Even if they do woman have a code they will never tell.Ladies give blow jobs and hand jobs to strippers as seen on the net and many forums and play games like toss the ring on the strippers penis its realy sick lol so if I was you I wouldnt let her have strippers at her party ladies are sick at these parties and you will never know

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  14. Ang on Sep 08, 2010

    A private investigator would only cost around $100 for the night.

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