Being part of the bridal party, am I expected to buy the couple a gift also?
March 9th, 2010 | 
Author: My friend is getting married, the bridal party is splitting the costs for the shower and bachelorett party and also needed to buy dresses that were upwards of 0 each. When it is all said and done we each will have spent at least 0 for this wedding. Recently the bride told me the places that they registered for gifts, just in case I want to get a jump on the pickings. Is this normal?
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Yes, it’s normal, she gave you a heads up because everything else that is under 50 bucks will be gone by the time you go out and get it. Usually the cheap stuff goes first. You can always get her a gift card for the place she registered at.
It seems like robbery to go all out for the bride doesn’t it LOL. I was a bridesmade 3 times last year and I had to reject the 4th offer. I couldn’t afford it.
It is expected that everyone brings a gift to the wedding but don’t feel bad for getting a inexpensive one.
Of course you are.
You have already done your part. You don’t have to buy a gift. It is not required. Only if you want to buy a gift should you, but you are not obligated.
Yes, being a part of the bridal party is not a favor you are doing for the bride. It is an honor having been chosen. A small token of gratitude and congratulations is the least one can give.