So my brother is recently engaged and I just heard that his fiance is going to ask me to be one of eight bridesmaids in their wedding. I really don’t want to do it because the whole matching dresses and hairstyles thing really just isn’t me. Of course I will go to the wedding. But I would rather just hang out with my family at the wedding than be part of the bridal party. Would it be totally rude to decline the offer to be a bridesmaid? I really don’t know my brother’s fiance very well. I have only hung out with her 3 or 4 times. Thanks.