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Do you wear your engagement ring to bed?

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My fiance was so excited to get the engagement ring that now she wears it to bed. It is so indearing because it says a lot about how she feels. Do you wear your rings to bed, or purge them before lying down?

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  1. Mrs Noel ♥6/19/2010♥ on Jan 11, 2011

    I wear mine 24/7. Bed, shower, dishes, everything, other than HEAVY cleaning, and that’s just usually if I’m using bleach water. I have a feeling that I will be taking it off next week when I’m stuffing a turkey for Thanksgiving though!

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  2. Rosy on Jan 11, 2011

    I wear my rings all the time.

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  3. pisceswomanem on Jan 11, 2011

    I take mine off and place it in the jewelry box. I am a little nervous that it might fall off or something might happen to it.

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  4. C J on Jan 11, 2011

    I keep my engagement and wedding rings on all the time except the shower, pool and when pregnant (you swell up huge!). Sometimes I forget to put the ring back on before bed but if I wake up and notice I go put it on.

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  5. Stiffler on Jan 11, 2011

    I wear mine to bed, actually I wear it all the time except for showering and washing the dishes.
    I probably should take it off though, I always end up with marks on my face from sleeping on that hand.

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  6. cmp8423 on Jan 11, 2011

    I wear mine to bed too, the only time i take it off is for the shower or when i put lotion on my hands.

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  7. i eat rocks on Jan 11, 2011

    I have an engagement ring that I wear on my right hand and a wedding band on the left. I very rarely take either of them off – only when I do dirty work around the house. I always wear them to bed.

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  8. cheeky on Jan 11, 2011

    I wouldnt say that I purge my ring lol, but I DID have a habit of taking it off before bed, I have a high setting, and it would catch on the sheets, hair, etc.

    But then I kept forgetting to put it back on, YES i know thats horrible, but I was newly engaged and not used to wearing a ring at all!

    Now I sleep in it, and Im not afraid to get it wet, accidentally whack it on the counter, etc haha, I realized its METAL and un-breakable ROCK, it aint goin anywhere lol

    I was very afraid of breaking it, early on

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  9. Marie on Jan 11, 2011

    I wear it all the time except for twice a year when I take it to the jewelers to have the setting checked. I lost my diamond out of the setting because it became loose once. I did find it but it taught me a very valuable lesson.

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  10. Kristy on Jan 11, 2011

    I wear it all the time unless it is getting cleaned. Initially I scratched myself a few times but haven’t since about a month after I got it.

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  11. nova_queen_28 on Jan 11, 2011

    I don’t. Its actually not good for jewelry to be worn all the time especially while sleeping, showering or cleaning – your fiance could actually damage the ring by doing that.

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  12. SassyP on Jan 11, 2011

    I only take mine off when Im at work, im a nanny/housekeeper so when I do housekeeping I don’t want to get things like bleach or amonia on it.
    but I do wear it to bed and in the shower. If I didn’t fear ruining it I would never take it off.

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  13. Gretchen K on Jan 11, 2011

    I never wear jewelry in bed, in the shower, or when washing dishes or doing anything active. That is just how I am and it has nothing to do with how much I love my fiance, jewelry, or anything else.

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  14. Ms. X on Jan 11, 2011

    No, I don’t wear any jewelry to bed or in the shower.

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  15. Me! on Jan 11, 2011

    Yip, I only take it off to bath or shower or put cream on my hands, but otherwise yes, i do sleep with it! I love waking up and looking at it every morning!

    Congrats on your engagement and happy planning! :)

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  16. Teresa on Jan 11, 2011

    Nope can’t, the set is too high and I scratch my hubby so it comes off, the band does stay on however.

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  17. VCW on Jan 11, 2011

    I wear my rings all the time.

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  18. leaf on Jan 11, 2011

    I did when we first got engaged but the setting is so high (and crazy sharp!) that I was cutting myself and my fiance when we were sleeping! Plus, my fiance was freaking out that I snag it on something and the diamond would fall out so now I take them off.

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  19. fluffynurse btb + new pregnancy! on Jan 11, 2011

    i take it off at night mainly for comfort and also to ensure nothing happens to it, but nonetheless am still completely in love lol

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  20. Holly on Jan 11, 2011

    Yes, always. I only take mine off to clean it.

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  21. Food Traveler on Jan 11, 2011

    I only take mine off to clean either the house, or the ring. The wedding ring only though, right hand rings come off when I hit the door.

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  22. armywife on Jan 11, 2011

    I wear my rings 24/7 the only time I take them off is when I take a shower. I’m always afraid they’ll fall off.

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  23. Rachel on Jan 11, 2011

    I wear my ring all the time… to bed, in the shower, to work… ALL the time. The only time I have taken it off is to have it re-sized and when I was cleaning out a pumpkin for carving (no one likes the smell of old pumpkin on a diamond). I’m glad she keeps it on all the time. It means she loves you!

    Good Luck for you Wedding!!!

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  24. misshammy on Jan 11, 2011

    I put it back in the ring box before I go to bed… Knowing me, I’ll end up scratching myself with the ring, haha… Besides, my fingers swell when I sleep… But, my fiance, I purchased him a ring when we were dating and he never takes it off..

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  25. chinarican522 on Jan 11, 2011

    I wear mine all the time

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  26. Kelly P on Jan 11, 2011

    i only take my ring off when i’m working on a car with my fiance (and sometimes not even then), sometimes when i babysit (so i don’t scratch them) and when i’m cleaning with strong chemicals otherwise it is on all the time (including bed)

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  27. Blondee {B2B 9.12.09} on Jan 11, 2011

    I only take my ring off to put lotion on or clean, or clean the ring itself. I always wear it to bed, in the shower, when I wash the dishes. I don’t wear it when I’m cleaning with harsh chemicals.

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  28. gg on Jan 11, 2011

    i would remove your ring if it has diamonds or other gemstones. diamonds especially attracts oil and dust which dulls the brilliance of the gems. you would need to clean it more frequently. also, depending on the setting style, the metal might hook onto the sheets or other things and might cause damage to both. before you go to bed, remove your rings and place it in a jewelry box or somewhere safe. this will prolong the life of your jewelry and minimize maintenance.

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  29. Krista J on Jan 11, 2011

    I always wear my engagement ring to bed even though my fiancee thinks im nuts but really the only time that i take it off is when i go in the shower cause im scared that it will get ruined and then ill be really upset. But i think that it is a good thing that she wears her engagement ring to bed since it shows you how much she Truly cares about u.

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  30. Soon2BeMrsB on Jan 11, 2011

    No. I put it right back in the ring box to prevent damaging it or losing it.

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  31. Brymom02 on Jan 11, 2011

    before we were married ( got married last month ) I put it in the original box on my nightstand before bed. The ring has a Pave setting ( which means it sits high up on the setting) so it would poke and scratch me at night b/c I always end up with my hands by my face. Now before bed it goes in the beautiful engarved jewelry box my husband gave me on our wedding night.

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